Reflection of a child

Dont shape her a princess then ask her to be a know-all girl

Dont tell her that everything mom say is right. And ask her to obey all the time.
Teach her how to voice out her opinion, have a critical thinking and being mindful indeed.

Dont say that everything mom does is good for her, because of her. Then blame her for all the hardness you had to go through.
Treat her like a partner in life, who can cooperate, understand through trial and error, respect.

Dont be afraid that if you praise her, she will become over-confident.
Indeed, compliment should go with reprimand.

Dont just always dwell on her mistakes, her weakness. That only develops her inferiority complex.

Teach her to be a good listener, a carer for others. But dont forget to teach her to be a good listener for herself too. Being too attentive for others' need makes her lose who she really is.

Last but not least, teach her to love and accept for who she really is while self-improving days by days. It is when she can grow both mentally and physically. Not being a baby in your safety zone forever while also being thankful for having a mother in her life.

Sometimes for the sake of love, it hurts instead. Sometimes for the sake of love, you feel thankful. It depends....